“Tell me who you hang out with, and I’ll tell you who you are!”

My mother would always share this quote with me. Mothers have a lot of wisdom! The word deceive means: “to ensnare or trap, to be false to fail to fulfill, to cheat.” Wow, that’s a handful. I see many young people disregard their parents’ concerns about their friends. The parents say: “I don’t want you hanging around those kids. they are going to get you into trouble.” Their children respond: “Don’t worry, I know what I am doing. I won’t let my friends change me, and I won’t do what they do.” However,  1 Corinthians 15:33 (AMPC)  says: “Do not be so deceived and misled! Evil companionships (communion, associations) corrupt and deprave good manners and morals and character. Our friends and associates will affect us one way or another. In Matthew 4:19, the Lord Jesus told the disciples: “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” 2 Corinthians 6:17 says: “Therefore, come out from among unbelievers, and separate yourselves from them, says the Lord.” You can clearly see that according to God’s wisdom, we can be more easily deceived than we realize. Therefore, wisdom dictates that we be very careful and discerning of who we associate with and who we choose as friends. If you associate with gossipers and complainers, that is the impartation you will receive from them. If we associate with godly visionaries and people who love God and His word, they will draw us closer to God and His plans for us. If your associations are corrupting your good manners and morals, it’s time to get rid of them and find those that will help you in your relationship with God. Selah!

1 Corinthians 15:33 (AMPC)  “Do not be so deceived and misled! Evil companionships (communion, associations) corrupt and deprave good manners and morals and character”

God’s word and integrity is a shield to those who trust in Him!

One of the most important things we look for in quality relationships is truthfulness and integrity. Without that, there can be no trust. The courts are full of lawsuits alleging that people were lied to or betrayed. Unfortunately, this is part of the human condition. We fail each other because of so many variables. However, God is not man that He should lie. When He promises something, He honors His words. His integrity and nature are like a shield to all those who take refuge in Him. Think about it: most of our national issues come from broken promises, betrayal, gossip, slander and outright lies. But when we consider God’s promises, they are pure and consistent. Even though friends, family members, co-workers might change and fail you, God never changes! He remains faithful and true, and we can always trust Him. He is our shield in times of trouble!

Proverbs 30:5 (ESV) “Every word of God proves true; he is a shield to those who take refuge in Him”