Stop with the excuses already!

Since Adam, excuses have existed. Excuses are a natural reaction to being caught in a lie or failure, or not wanting to accept responsibility. Adam told God this famous statement: “Then the man said, “The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate” (Genesis 3:12). Adam refused to take responsibility for Eve’s actions, yet God had clearly told him not to eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. The problem with the habit of making excuses is that they keep you from the very actions and mindset that will propel you to great accomplishment and effective influence. It will keep you stunted emotionally, socially, and even in business.  People do not respect those who are always utilizing excuses to not take care of their responsibilities. Most will simply “blame-shift” so that the perception will seem to be that it’s not their fault. It’s always someone else’s fault. Think about this: Adam made excuses instead of embracing his responsibility, thus he allowed sin to enter his life. So now his legacy is known as the man who helped to release sin onto mankind. Conversely, the Lord Jesus accepted responsibility for mankind, thus His legacy is that He loved us so much that He died for us, and made a way for us to be delivered from sin and death. One is unrighteous; the other is righteous. One refused his responsibility; the other accepted responsibility. One made excuses; the other refused to make excuses and did what was needed to redeem mankind. Adam’s name is infamous because of his refusal to accept responsibility; Jesus’ name is great and is the name above all names. So, what’s your excuse?

Ecclesiastes 5:6 “Do not let your mouth cause your flesh to sin, nor say before the messenger of God that it was an error. Why should God be angry at your excuse and destroy the work of your hands?”

Mom said: “wash your mouth out with soap!”

Our words are more powerful than most people realize. Words carry pictures, feelings, intentions and the ability to affect other people’s viewpoints and emotions. Words can help to communicate our needs and feelings. Words can frame our future and destiny. Words can also harm, wound and destroy. Matthew 12:37 says: “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” God holds us responsible for our words, because our words reveal the content and decisions of our heart. Our words reveal our real intentions and agendas. In Numbers 14:28, God declared to Moses and Aaron that the Israelites would be judged according to their very own words. Proverbs 13:3 says: “He who guards his mouth preserves his life, But he who opens wide his lips shall have destruction.” Today, the Lord reminds us of the power in our words, and our responsibility to guard our mouths. Take some time to listen to your words. Do you bring glory to God with your words? Are you building others up and encouraging them? Or are you using your words to tear others down?

Proverbs 12:18 “There is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword, But the tongue of the wise promotes health.”

Proverbs 18:21 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.”